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so, i'm a virgin.
i've never really been concerned with sex but now i'm in a relationship with a guy whom i really love and is very considerate of my being a virgin. he's way more experienced than me but he doesn't care about that.
he gave me oral the other day and i had to tell him to stop cuz it hurt. i need some comments on why i had pain. plz?
also: i need some tips on how to give him pleasure too. i don't want to leave him doing all the work and unsatisfied.

Ok...Let me keep it real with you, If it hurt then he was doing it wrong. Straight up. Now maybe he wasn't doing it wrong for some chick he had before, but he is doing it wrong for you. You gotta tell him what you like and I know you are new so you don't really know what you like yet. I would say this, tell him to like you but not to bite you or suck you, sometimes if the man sucks your clit it can hurt, so just tell him to like lick your thighs and lick your clit and vagina but don't suck it yet. See how you like that. tell him to lick it fast and then lick it slow, move around stuff like that. tell him to rub it too, you may or may not like fingering, i didn't like it at first and then it grew on me. Start off with one finger and move on up as you get comfortable. Now if you want to give him pleasure the best thing to do is to give him a really good hand job. Here is a link with some relaly good techniques (NOTE: before you go on these websites there are some example pictures and sexual content ok, but it is not explicit, they are helpful: http://www.scribd.com/doc/267084/How-to-Give-A-Good-Blow-Job-and-Hand-JobBlowHisMindTonight-com

http://cmecum.com/hj.html

if you have more questions or what some more advice just hit me up. hope this helps. Peace

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(Rating: 5) thank you so much. this helped quite a bit.
and that website was also very helpful. thanks again!
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