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My family is always arguing and yelling. Once my parents were fighting and my dad almost left, I was in my room crying. But of course I think everybody would be. Well then they worked it out and he stayed but lately they have started fighting again and then my little 11 year old brother is getting in trouble everyday. Which makes my mom always yelling at him and then sometimes things come in with me and I start yelling because everybody else is. I hate it! I have cryed every single night that I can remember. I have cut myself once but not badly. I also promised myself I would never do it again. So that isn't much of my problem. I have tried talking to them about it but they are never happy and they never want to talk to me. I know for a fact they love me though. I try to get away from home as much as possible too. Also if no one is fighting then they are complaining. I hardly ever yell, I just stay in my room and try to block it all out or call my friends or go online or something. There is no abuse or anything so its good there. So if anyone can give me advice on what to do, thanks so much! And sorry it was long.

This is an awkward situation cause you can't like leave cause you are too young. There is a book called the secret. It is by Rhonda Byrne. Very popular, it has been on the best sellers list for like ever...you can go to Borders or Barnes and Nobles and read it for free or you can get the DVD if you don't like reading. I strongly suggest that you focus on the part about imporving relationships. You cannot change your parents, but you can put your self in a better vibration so that you are only around them when they are happy. This is what I have been doing with my mom and with time and practice it is working very well. She used to fuss all the time and me and yell at me and call me names and blame me for stuff...now we are happy, peaceful, when she get's upset i can let it go better. She is doing things for me with a nice heart. I really think you should check it out. Peace.
Also:
kahea2018@yahoo.com is my e-mail address. I used to suffer from really bad depression and cut my self too. So if you need advice hit me up very freeely ok. No matter what...there is nothing stupid that you could say to me or ask me, all things are welcome. If there is no one else that you can talk to please talk to me ok...I will respond as soon as I get the e-mail. Peace.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks so much, if I have another question I will ask. Thanks so much!

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