Are you still friends with him? I think it would be best for you to move on and not keep brooding over it. If you two were dating it might be a different story. You shouldn't feel at lost for something like this. I know that a lot of girls love to just have that guy there who tells them all those things they want to hear (believe it or not, even if its somebody other than their current boyfriend). I'm sure you can both stay friends and still stay best friends with her, but if was saying all those things to you and is now saying it to your best friend, then who else has he said it to and who's next? Get the picture? I don't mean to say that he was making anything up or just says these things to be nice, but some guys (yes they actually exist) might go out of their way to say nice things to girls they might consider better friends, or are just comfortable saying it to. Don't hold a grudge or be jealous about it, because if you do get that way it might interfere with the friendship you have with your best friend, besides the fact that she probably never even meant to make you feel this way in the first place. Hope that helped and good luck.

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