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This from: I am so confused
I don’t think so, I am moving away next year and we are very good best friends she didn’t like the fact I have to move away (and of course no one wants me to move away even Lara.) The reason I am because my family as a house at Hawaii and I have not enough money to stay where I live. (So I have no choice) But the thing is Lara seems confused and I too we both don’t know what we want but something is going on between us. I told her how I felt just to get it off my chest I want to get over her because she told me she didn’t feel the same way but that was after the talk her and I had. Now that I know she was jealous how I was meeting new people and she told me “I think time will tell for the both of us” I have to think of what to do. I want time away to think if I really want her more than friends with her because this is my first Girl crush and my first crush. Like she said “time will tell”
She is a close and touchy person to me and she said she isn’t sure what gender she likes and she does respect my feelings to her. Right now we still hang out and have a good time but I am letting things settle for a while. I want to ask her if she likes me more than a friend but I don’t know how to do it with out making a fool of myself.
Thanx for your advice.
well i think that if she already knows you like her, the hard part is out and you can just ask her if she likes you back. if not, then you have an answer and you can forget the conversation ever happened. if she does well then you can take it from there. but like you said, letting things settle down for a little while couldnt hurt.
(Rating: 5) thank you