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Ok I have been datting my boyfriend for almost 9 months.Let call him 'bob'. Well bob is best friends with my best friend lets call my best friend 'stacy' so 'bob' is best friends with stacy and stacy is also my best friend. But it seems like to me they hang out more than me and him do. And it really upsets me.. beucase it makes me think that bob is doing stuff behind my back with stacy and whenever they are around eachother and they call me.. he acts completly diffrentt, and it makes me so.. mad. I dont know what to do or think.. is he doing stuff behind my back.. should I tell him how I fell ( which I have tried and it just starts a fight) what do I do? what do I say? please help me.

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Much Love XoXoX

You have to stay calm in this situation. Yelling and swearing will only make things worse. Calmly tell your best friend and your boyfriend that you don't feel comfortable with what they are doing, and you'd like it if they could tone it down a bit. Be calm, but yet firm. You do not want to be a doormat.

If she is a true friend, and he is a true catch, they will both come to terms and respect your decision.

If they don't, then I think it's time to find a new best friend and a new boyfriend, because you deserve better, and if they can't respect your decision, then that's their fault; they just lost themselves a wonderful friend and a wonderful girlfriend.

If you need anymore help, just ask. :)

-Mariah-

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