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hi, im really upset and i've cried for ages over this im turning 14 in exactly 2 weeks, this is long right basically i havent started my period my boobs are growing and are a fair size, i've got lots of pubic hair on my vagina and armpits thats normal. I'm worried about the period thing will it ever start? I masturbated with proper dirty sticks and unclean pens will this affect my period and also i don't do much sports apart from athletics once a week in school as part of PE but i'm quite energetic and lively. I'm so scared i really don't know what to do, my sister who is now 17 started hers at the age of 13 and 3 months i don't know about my mum and i can't talk to them or any doctors what should i do? I want to say thank you for any advice.

don't be upset! i didn't start mine til i was 14 1/2...after all my friends already had. i was all worried too like omggg am i normal?! but really, you have nothing to worry about, i promise! it will come! my mom got hers at 13 so i was really freaking out but we just have different body types. masturbating won't affect it but you shouldnt use anything dirty from now on. it will come.. don't stress over it. doctors don't tell people to start worrying about it until they're 16 or 17 & they haven't gotten it... you have a couple years before that so there's no need to go talk to a doctor because you are fine! it will come! people will be jealous that you started it late because everyone HATES having it. hang in there!

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