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My boyfriend wants to have sex. I don't want to lose him. What should I do?
If you're not ready for sex and he is, then you need to talk to him about it, and explain to him why you're not ready and that he should respect your wishes. If he doesn't, then you don't need him in your life. You should wait until you are comfortable with who your having sex with and you shouldn't give him to him just because you don't want to lose him. You're better then that I'm sure, you shouldn't have to have sex with someone just so they stay with you. If that's the case.. all he's looking for is "some". If you are comfortable with him and you don't have to question yourself then you know you're ready to have sex with him, but if you have to double ask yourself (basicly like you are now) then that should be a sign right there, that having sex with him is a wrong idea (at this time) and you should hold out and until you are really ready and comfortable. Good luck, hope this helped.
(Rating: 4) Thank you for answering. Next time maybe you could break it up a little so its easier to read. Thats
one big blob of an answer. LOL. Thanks for taking the time to offer your advice. I appreciate it.