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Q: okay..
so my birthday was last friday and i had a couple friends spend the night...and this guy that ive been talking to for two years, kyle, came to surprise me at one oclock in the morning with his friend alex... now ive been talking to kyle for two years.. but this was the first time we've actually met in person cause he lives 2 hours away...anyways it went pretty well or so i think... they stayed till 4.... and when he got home... he texted me
"Umm so we had fun and we will be back soon...We hope ya'll had fun 2 and will want to hang out again..."
and then i said..."Ya! ya'll are awesome! i had fun!"
and then he said... "ok,cool...well ill ttyl, bye"
and i was like "thanks for coming to see me, goodnight kyle"
and he was like "ur welcome, goodnight"

so i figured he had fun...
so i texted him saturday twice and then he texted back...
and then i texted back but he never did... and on sunday night... i texted him again... but he didn't text me back and today he still hasn't texted me...

okay backing up....
when he came to my house it was awkward at first, but then we became really comfortable...and my friend says that she thought he liked me from the way he looked at me...and he wanted me to give him a tour of the house...and somebody else offered too, but he said he wanted ME to, and there were many times we could have kissed..(but im kinda dating someone else, but i like kyle and my kinda bf knos that)

i guess my question is.. is that.. am i just being a paranoid teenage girl and overanalyzing the whole situation or does it sound like he really does like me...but if he really did like me...why wouldn't he text me back?


thanks...
Hate to say it, but I think your overanalyzing the whole situation. Also, you have to keep in mind that for him, and just about every guy you meet, they don't think the way girls do. Most guys don't feel that if they like a girl, they should go out of their way to call or text. You should be honest with your boyfriend of course. I wouldn't get your hopes up high - keep trying though - but don't expect the best results either. If he hasn't mentioned anything about liking you then I would guess it hasn't crossed his mind as something serious. Hope that helped and good luck.

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