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the name is lindsay, but call me lu. i'm crazy, calm, happy, optimistic and spoiled. i've got my best friends. yes i've made mistakes but who hasn't. i've gained some of the most amazing people but also lost a few great ones. the past is the past, i'm over it. the future scares me but i'm ready. i am very independent, i need my space. my family is definately one of my number one priorities, they never let me down and always work hard to make me happy. i look up to my brother shane, he is one of my best friends. i try my hardest not to judge others. i refuse to settle for less. i finally figured out who i really am and ive never ever been happier. i want to become successful, and someday i know i will. i'm the blonde one, thats me :) probably the biggest sweetheart, and one of the most understanding people you'll ever meet. just don't piss me off. i make the best out of every situation. i don't trust easily but i'm a strong ass girl. smiling is something i'm good at. i never give up. i keep my chin up. i stand up for myself and don't let people walk all over me. i don't get mad, i get even. i believe in myself, and in who i am. i live life to the fullest which also means taking risks and chances. i probably don't care what you think, because right now i've got everyone i need. being in love is one of the greatest things i've ever experienced. everything is meant to happen for a reason. live life with no regrets and have fun. change is something thats necessary, even though it's not always good. get to know me, i promise you won't regret it. i live my life for myself and not others. i love the life i was given, and i'll never stop being me.



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My story is pretty confusing and sad for me.
Well i would like to say alot of the guys at my school hate me, I dont know why but they do.
One of them, I had sex with.
He sure acted like he didnt hate me back then and then school started and he became an asshole again.
I still liked him, no matter how much of an ass he was to me.
Then after a while, he started randomly being nice to me and talking to me a little bit.
That lasted a whole week, and then he went back to being mean.
Again he tried being nice and then went back to making fun of me and calling me ugly,fat,,bitch,gross,etc.
It made me so sad because i like him so much.
Then his best friend told me , he actually likes me but he wants me to think he hates me and he tries to act mean to me , to be like everyone else.
His friend said not to believe anything he says,just know he likes me and his girlfriend [he has a girlfriend ] alot.
I want to get over him so bad, but at the same time how do I know if his best friend is telling the truth?
I believe it , Because he wouldnt lie.
But if he liked me, how can he be so mean to me?
Lately Ive been noticing hes being twice as mean as he was.
This just makes me so sad,I cant get over him because ive liked him for so long.
What exactly should i do?

aw baby im going through the same thing right now! me and this guy are going through alot! he said he liked me soo much and then one day out of no where he was like your a bitch i never liked you dont talk to me and i was so hurt i didnt know what to do! i tried to make things better because i knew i had to talk to him but he refused to talk to me and he now has a girlfriend and i think that guy is telling you the truth about him still liking you because his friends and my friends both told me he is acting like that because he still likes me and hates seeing me talk to other guys and thinks he wouldnt be able to get me! sweetie i know this guy still likes you, guys are so mean sometimes but we still like them and care for them and deep down they care for you too! what im doing right now is letting things cool off, dont try to talk to him for a little bit and i know how HARD it will be because its hard for me too but you have to make him realize that if he is a jerk to you and you dont talk to him then he is going to miss you and miss out on a great girl! he will start being nice to you and when he is talk to him and tell him how you feel and ask him why he was being so mean! if you want to get over him though go hangout with other guys and maybe you will start liking another great guy =) it also helps hanging out with your girls and going shopping, going to movies and getting your mind off GUYS! if you need any more help just IM me if you have aim and i will give you more advice because i have been going through the same situation you are in right now. stay strong babydoll ♥

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(Rating: 5) thank you!
good luck to both of us :]


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