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okay so i hang out with a lot of guys. but i cant really help it. i just get along better with guys. girls start too much drama and i hate drama. so some girls at my school think im a whore and are startin rumors that im doin stuff with all the guys i hang out with and that im cheatin on my boyfriend. but thats so not true. these guys are like my brothers. i wouldn't do anything with them. and i would never cheat on my boyfriend! he means the world to me. and he understands that i have a lot of guy friends and he's okay with it. he knows i wouldn't do anything with any of them. but i dont want that kind of rumor about me to spread. i mean. everyone at school knows im not like that. and my boyfriend and all my friends were like dont worry about it, they are just jealous that all the guys talk to you and not them. but idk. what do you think?
I have the same problem. Girls start way to much drama & guys just .. dont. I totally see where your comming from
Your friends are right. Probally the people starting the rumors are girls [guys dont usually start rumors] & if they are starting them then they are jealous. You can hang out with guys and be comfortable, while they obviously cant. You know you're a good person and your boyfriend and friends trust you. If people are going to be low and make up stuff to make themselves feel better. Let them. You apperently have something they idolize, if they didnt they wouldnt care. They feel like they have to make stuff up to feel better about themsleves. You're a good person who just happens to have alot of guy friends, if people cant understand that, its their problem not yours.
You can try and find out who's starting the rumors [could take a little while] & tell them youd like it if they stopped, or you can just in a way deal. Yeah its hard to have people think stuff about you, but you know its not true, and your boyfriend knows its not true, thats all that should matter. They arent effecting your relationship & thats a good thing. You have to understand people are stupid and rude and just plain out mean, but its out of jealousy. I would in a way take it as a compliment. Don't let it erk you. Just live life and have fun, people say stuff about people all the time. Soon people will forget all about what the person's saying about you :)
Just have fun knowning you have something, other wants :)
(Rating: 5) thanks for your advice! i really appreciate it! im so glad to know that other people dont think its wrong to have guy friends! but thanks again! see ya around!