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Hiii everyone (= im Brianna but people mostly call me bee & im the sweet 16. i was born 9 - 9 - 90. i have two younger brothers which makes me the only girl and the oldest. im in 10th grade at HAHS. i plan to either be a pediatrican or an accountant. i have a problem trusting boys. just boys in general. i think because of my past relationship, it made me realize how easy it is to believe a lie. but dont get me wrong, i will give a boy a chance, i just learnd not to believe everything someone says unless its proven to me. i dont really have a best friend actually i consider my mom my best friend. i tell her everything and i cant picture myself hiding something from her. i plan to get married eventually but no kids. im a unique person and i could be trusted with anything. i like to help people out and make them realize things from a different view. so thats what brings me to this site. if you have any questions or need help with a situation, im here (=

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Hey. Well, I don't mean to seem stuck up or concieted(sp) but everyone has always told me I'm wicked mature for my age. And when I go out or something with my friends, they often do things I know are wrong, but I really want to do anyways (not like smoking and stuff, just drinking on a very rare occasion.) And like, I really wanna have a fun time with them, like when we all have our boyfriends with us [on the rare occasion I have a boyfriend] and they're all like attached and stuff. I don't know if that information really helped, but I'm wondering if there's a way I can make myself loosen up and get a little bit less uptight. Help! Thank you :)

My best advice would probably be to stop thinking about it so much. i think when you see your friends doing certain things, you always think about " what if this happened " or " what are they gonna think, " so when you see them doing something that you would like to do, go for it. try it & if you feel that you dont like it or its not for you, you have a mouth and just say something or just stop. for the drinking part though, drink alittle a day at a time so that you can get used to it, and really see if you like it or not. also, see how your friends act after their done doing things like this and realize if thats how you wanna act after you do it too. i hope i helped.


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(Rating: 5) Okay. Thank you soooo much, the advice means a lot.

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