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Hiii everyone (= im Brianna but people mostly call me bee & im the sweet 16. i was born 9 - 9 - 90. i have two younger brothers which makes me the only girl and the oldest. im in 10th grade at HAHS. i plan to either be a pediatrican or an accountant. i have a problem trusting boys. just boys in general. i think because of my past relationship, it made me realize how easy it is to believe a lie. but dont get me wrong, i will give a boy a chance, i just learnd not to believe everything someone says unless its proven to me. i dont really have a best friend actually i consider my mom my best friend. i tell her everything and i cant picture myself hiding something from her. i plan to get married eventually but no kids. im a unique person and i could be trusted with anything. i like to help people out and make them realize things from a different view. so thats what brings me to this site. if you have any questions or need help with a situation, im here (=
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So there's this guy "tyler" who likes me. I mean REALLY likes me. Now tyler is not the best-looking guy in the world, but he's amazigly nice. He has asked me out a few times, but I've always said no. There are just some things I cannot stand about him, like that he is really into drugs, he's practiclly an alcoholic, and again he's not the best-looking guy in the world. Since we live really far away, we usually talk online, and we've become really good friends this way. When I see him in person, though, I keep thinking about his faults and I can never see myself with him, though I can when we talk online. Because of this, I've come to think that I'm being very shallow about this whole situation...but then I think would I really be happy with him and say I would not so therefore I am not being shallow. It's been bothering me for like forever, so please, what should I do about this whole thing, and am I shallow?
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i dont think your being shallow at all. i think its far from it actually. your a very smart girl. any boy involved with drugs and is an alchoholic at a young age can only mean trouble. im not here to judge anyone because i could be wrong but most of the time it only leads into dangerous situations. its typical to look at looks, i mean hey looks grab your attention right ? im a very picky person when it comes to dating, its not a bad thing it just means you know what you want and you wont settle for less. i think you should just tell him that two are better off as friends because hes not your type and you dont want something that will only lead to a heartbreak. just always remember your heart is what matters and if you dont want it then dont push yourself. i really hope i helped. good luck!
(Rating: 5) thank you! good advice.