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Q: Hey. I'm 15 years old. I have never had a boyfriend, but guys have been interested in me...eh immaturity in guys sucks..but thats besides the point..totally diff. story ha. Basically, i'm scared to grow up & Be Alone. Not find somone out there for me. And turn into some cat lady. I know i'm young but i cannot picture myself being with anyone. Have you ever felt this one at one point or another? Help =[
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I'm really starting to think it's natural for most people to feel this way. In the grand scheme of things (try to imagine this yourself), fifteen is really young. You have so much time, but you don't see that right now. Trust me.
There's nothing to worry about being alone. I've always felt that way: that love was for everyone except me. But I stopped worrying about that, I stopped caring what might happen, and that made all the difference.
If you keep those thoughts in the back of your head all the time, then it might stop you from making friendships which could have developed into relationships. Oh, and about immature guys...if you take anything from my answer... don't go for older guys just because you think they will be more mature. That is not always true, and in most cases they end up being more immature by taking advantage of you or making you believe things that aren't true.
Be patient - good things come to those who wait. There is plenty of time for you to consider relationships. Hypothetically, if you were to get married at 25, which is still relatively young or average for most, that still gives you ten whole years to find somebody and learn how to love. It's a lot more time than you think. So try not to feel that way, you're definitely not the only one who does feel that way. Make the right choices when it comes to friends, and things will happen on their own from there. Hope that helped and good luck.
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thank you so much. it made be feel a lot lot lot better about things. puttin' things into perspective, ya know? great advice =]
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Feel free to ask me any questions or for an alternate way of contacting me through my inbox.
I really like giving advice, so thats why I have a column here. I've been inactive for a long time, but I'm back and will do my best to catch up. Advicenators is a great site and it is what we make it. Having my own advice column helped me learn a lot of new things, even about myself, while giving me the chance to help others along the way. Thanks.
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Gender: Male Location: New York Occupation: Student Age: 18 Member Since: August 10, 2005 Answers: 674 Last Update: July 10, 2009 Visitors: 54849
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