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I know there's nothing wrong with dating anyone of a different race, and I think I may have a crush on this amazing guy, who is of a different race.

Well me and about 2 friends are the ONLY people in the school who think biracial dating is OK.

The rest of the school thinks its disgusting.

And I know that shouldn't matter, and I mean it doesn't REALLY. But I don't want to lose all my friends, just because of a crush. I know they're not good friends or whatever if they don't accept it, but still, it hurts to lose all your friends.

I know some would be accepting of it, but I know most won't.

A subject similar to this came up in school today, where me and the two friends I mentioned, were talking about the cute guy at Burger King, lol.

I kind of bit my tongue about the guy I think I might like in the school, because people were eavesdropping.

And its not just friends, my grandma would know if I had a boyfriend (she has legal custody and I live with her) and she said she'd kill me (in a non literal sense) if I ever dated anyone who was of a different race. No exaggeration, she would make me live with my aunt down the road. My aunts nephew, is currently dating this girl named Janine, who is of a different race, and she's AMAZING. Me and my aunt are more open minded than most of the family. So me and her, and Jesse (the nephew) and Janine, went to the mall one day.

But I don't want to lose my friends / be disowned by my family, what do I do?

Find yourself a new crush and spare yourself the agony.

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