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Q: I keep pondering whether God is supporting homosexuality, or opposing it. Many of my Christian friends have told me it's a sin to be homosexual, or bisexual for that matter, and according to the bible marriage is between a man and a woman. However, I always viewed it as God would accept you no matter who you are, or what you believe in. I am wondering which side I should take. I am not against homosexuality/bisexuality at all. I am befriended with many of them, and they don't bother me. It's just I am not sure which side is right, and which side I should go for. I need explainations on which side is better, even if it's based on opinion. Thanks in advance!
God does loves everybody. He loves homosexuals, just not homosexuality. Remember, God always accepts the person, sometimes not their actions.

From a biological point of view, I don't agree with the idea of homosexuality. I don't, however, discriminate against those who are.

First you need to know what it means to sin. To sin, according to the Bible, means to deliberately and knowingly turn away from God and do wrong. So you have to know that you what you would do is wrong and going against God, and then you have to actually want to go against God and the Bible for it to be considered sin. For example...if you kill somebody dangerous in self defense, that isn't sin, even though the Bible says not to kill others. Was it right for you to do so? No. Was it sinful? Probably not. I could give you a really detailed explanation of what sin is, and if you need more info you can inbox me.

So I think that God does not support homosexuality...he didn't create us that way. Even from a non-God point of view, if we all became homosexuals, it would basically kill off humanity, and we can't have that. I also think that God does not look down upon homosexuals. It's up to you to decide which side to take, but from what I've learned through the Bible, I'm pretty sure thats close. Hope that helped.

thanks. very helpful

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