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Q: okay well im 15 and i have a boyfriend named tom... and tom's female friend ashley ..that i dont trust ATALL she is a back stabber..she invited us to go to a party. and the girl that is hosting the party is my BEST friend hayleys WORST enemy. i dont want my best friend hayley to hate me for going. and i know there is going to be alcohol there because i saw the girl that was hosting the party talking about it on myspace to the backstabber ashley. oh yeha did i mention that ashley is also one of hayleys WORST enimies?
but on the other hand... i love parties,i wanna hangout with my boyfriend somewhere different, ive actually have been wanting to go to a party for a long time and i know every party since i got into 9th grade was gonna have alcohol,some of my friends might be there that dont drink also.
i really dont know what to do....
ANY ADVICE?
i wasnt sure what category to put this question under--sorry if i put it under a bad one.
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First off, your best friend shouldn't be mad at you if you went to a party of her 'worst enemy'. I think a solid friendship should be a little more than just that.
You don't have to go. It is a party and you were invited, you are allowed to decline. I'm sure there are plenty of other things you could do with your boyfriend. Besides, this won't be the only party you'll be invited to.
So there is going to be alcohol there...so what? Everyone knows it's illegal for you and your friends to drink because you are underage. Does anybody get caught by the police? Rarely. Do parents find out? Sometimes. Do they care? Usually. Do people get sick or hurt because of drinking? Yeah.
It's up to you, I don't encourage it. Just because you go doesn't mean you have to drink. You won't be out of the loop if you don't. If people decide to not invite you again because you didn't drink enough to pass out on the floor, then they aren't worth your time to begin with. I say find something else to do just in case you decide to back out of the party. If you go, watch out for yourself. Just try to have fun. If you feel like you will be pressured to drink and are not comfortable with it then please trust me - don't do it to fit in. Hope that helped and good luck.
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thank you.. you helped alot
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Feel free to ask me any questions or for an alternate way of contacting me through my inbox.
I really like giving advice, so thats why I have a column here. I've been inactive for a long time, but I'm back and will do my best to catch up. Advicenators is a great site and it is what we make it. Having my own advice column helped me learn a lot of new things, even about myself, while giving me the chance to help others along the way. Thanks.
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