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VERY important-- i know alcohol is gonna be at a party
okay well im 15 and i have a boyfriend named tom... and tom's female friend ashley ..that i dont trust ATALL she is a back stabber..she invited us to go to a party. and the girl that is hosting the party is my BEST friend hayleys WORST enemy. i dont want my best friend hayley to hate me for going. and i know there is going to be alcohol there because i saw the girl that was hosting the party talking about it on myspace to the backstabber ashley. oh yeha did i mention that ashley is also one of hayleys WORST enimies?
but on the other hand... i love parties,i wanna hangout with my boyfriend somewhere different, ive actually have been wanting to go to a party for a long time and i know every party since i got into 9th grade was gonna have alcohol,some of my friends might be there that dont drink also.
i really dont know what to do....
ANY ADVICE?
i wasnt sure what category to put this question under--sorry if i put it under a bad one.
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Talk to your friend about going she may be fine with you attending. explain to her why you want to go. There are other parties if she doesn't feel comfertable with you going. or you could have your own. About the alcohol. I dont drink either and my friends dont pressure me into drinking it either because they understand that i dont like it. if you do go to the party go with people that arent going to try to pressure you into drinking, if anything does happen though call your parents they'll be there for you then even if they'll be mad at you later dont be scared to call them. About the parents not going to be there ask your parents what they think. lying to them is not the way to do it because you can get in even more trouble. I dont know what the ping pong balls are for so i cant help you there. If you are haveing so many mixed feelings about the party then maybe you just shouldn't go. talk about it with your riends and your parents because they can probably give you alot more help then i can or someone else on this site.
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Dear Party Lover,
I think that you should talk to your best freind and your boyfriend about it. If it is your best friend's worst enemey I suggest you not go. And since you want to hang out w/ your boyfreind, why dont you talk to him and come up with an alternative instead? Alocholic parties can be dangerous, considering the fact that its a teen party, better be careful if you do go. Good luck and let me know how things turn out.
Sincerly,
Lisa xox
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Friendship really should be put over personal prefences. Also, this seems to be a bad situation in the sense of that there's a party, but it also has your friend's worst enemies and perhaps more people that you may not be at ends with. It's an invite, so you perfectly in your right to decline.
There are going to be more parties in your high school career, trust me. Wait until one of your good friends throws a party so that you know the host will stick up for you if something "backstabbing" were to happen. Being in a enemy's house with her as the host there's something bound to go wrong.
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hmm this dose not sound good i no it might be hard but if i was you i wouldnt go just come up with some lame excuse like my moms making me baby sit or something cause it seems alot more could go wrong than right at this party
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First off, your best friend shouldn't be mad at you if you went to a party of her 'worst enemy'. I think a solid friendship should be a little more than just that.
You don't have to go. It is a party and you were invited, you are allowed to decline. I'm sure there are plenty of other things you could do with your boyfriend. Besides, this won't be the only party you'll be invited to.
So there is going to be alcohol there...so what? Everyone knows it's illegal for you and your friends to drink because you are underage. Does anybody get caught by the police? Rarely. Do parents find out? Sometimes. Do they care? Usually. Do people get sick or hurt because of drinking? Yeah.
It's up to you, I don't encourage it. Just because you go doesn't mean you have to drink. You won't be out of the loop if you don't. If people decide to not invite you again because you didn't drink enough to pass out on the floor, then they aren't worth your time to begin with. I say find something else to do just in case you decide to back out of the party. If you go, watch out for yourself. Just try to have fun. If you feel like you will be pressured to drink and are not comfortable with it then please trust me - don't do it to fit in. Hope that helped and good luck.
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I don't really know what you're asking here but you need to talk to your best friend. Ask her if she would be mad at you for going to that party. But honestly, she shouldn't be. Just because they are her worst enemies, doesn't mean you shouldn't go. It's your life and you can do whatever you want. Anywho, comfront your best friend and just talk to her. Explain to her that you just want to hang out with your boyfriend, and besides.. it's only going to be for one night so it shouldn't be a big deal.
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