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what if i don't see him for xmas?
ok i've had a crush on a guy for quite some tim now (4 years to be more exact) and this year i decided, since im seeing him for christmas.. that will be the day i decided what to do.. if i should get on with my life, or try for something (i only see him once a year during xmas) so what now, now that i found out we're not going there for xmas? i'll never get closure! or answers! i feel like i need to confess my feelings for him, face to face, before i can move on.. or you know, make another kind of decision.
so what do i do? be stuck on him for another year? i don't know!! help please!
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i think you should just move on. Long distance relationships never seem to work out very well and its just hard not seeing them, so i think the best thing for you to do would be to try and move on.
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Just relax, there are plenty of fish in the sea, and birds in the sky, so if you dont get to tell him your real feelings this christmas, just put him off and find somebody new during they ear until next christmas, and maybe if you and that new person you've met during the year fall in love with eachother maybe you will move on without expressing your true feelings to him...but I really hope you see him!
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i know it might sound hard but get on with your life because if you only see him once a year it would not make for a happy relationship. its hard to move on from someone and if that is what you decide to do good luck.
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just to start off,if you only see him once a year,you probably dont know that much about him, (its amazing how much people change in just a matter of months) and also,if this is with your family and everyone,he could be frountin...because i dont act the way i do with my family like i do with my friends,maybe thats the same (if hes a family friend or something) i know you want to do this face to face, but do you have his number? start off talking how you didn't see him on christmas and then tell him. and if he doesnt have the same feelings how will you feel? releived that you got it off your chest? or wondering if one day he'll ever feel the same? even after you do this,lots of things will run through your head.if you think this is the year you tell him,then it is! if you dont see him for xmas-theres phone,i-m,and maybe also if your willing to really tell him face to face,summertime. i've found out that guys change a lot in a year- and theres also so many other worries that i dont really want you to think about right now...but you probably will find out soon enough.
good luck =)
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it sounds like your in love hun. but i wouldnt try to be sprung over a guy that i can only see once a year. there other guys out that are willing to be with you everyday & wanna spend time with you.
maybe you should tell him how you feel & maybe he feels the same about you, you may never know. You could start it out slow and ask him if he wants to hang out sometime.
if this is a log distance relationship then hun well they never work out.Im sorry to tell you that but its true. you should have a boyfriend that is close to you so that you can get scoop on him sometimes and to find out if he is cheating on you cuz thats how most long distance relationships end.
i hope this advice helps you out & answered what you asked.
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no no no no no. you need corgage and need to learn to be brave 4 years is so way to long. come on the worst that could happen is he rejects you so there al plenty of guys out there. and how do u kno he will until you try come on go talk to him . but dont just go out and be like I LIVE YOU. take it slow hagout as much as possible get to know him and he might start to like you to. by the way LOK YOUR BEST AROUND HIM. and act normal =] hope i helped if nto comment me back
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