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ok well where do i start. when i was 12 my dad was my gero andi loved him more than anything, then he told me that he had been an alcoholic for many years and all the nights i spent with him he was drunk. my worl came crashing down and i still dont know how to get over it. On last year on thanksgiving week he went to a rehab to get better, and he did. Now i am 13 and still love my ad very much buti t seems like all of a sudden he just doesnt care about how many months he has been sober and just recently i evesdropp on my parents convos (puh lesse who doesnt) andi heard parts were he would say "i dont want her to smell it on my breath." usualy i would talk to my mom about it but she has been lying about thiss sitchuation. i cant trust them. and now today i heard my dad downstairs and i thought he was drinking something so i told my mom and she started talking to him and of corse, i evesdropped again b/c i dont want to not know things that are going on with my dad b/c i love and care about him. well i heard her go "we cant keep lying, they know, our kids know this" I really dont know what to do rite now and please dont say talk to them about it b/c for some reason i cant, and i dont know why i usually tell them everything it is just this sbject that i cant say anything about. PLEASE HELP! (link)
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I know how you feel when parents keep important things that might change your life from you. But this is how I came to overcome this is keeping big secrets from them. I know this is not a very positive way to deal with it but if you cant talk to them then what else is their. Well for example say you've lost your virginity, dont tell them, start sneeking out without telling them. start becoming a rebel and evryday get worse, without realing being bad...just make them think you're bad. I know it sounds dumb..but you have to beleive me it works....they're going to ask why you are acting so different and you are going to say "because I have nobody to trust" they are going to start feeling guilty and then they will start sharing things with you. TRUST ME!! And once you notice the change in their attitudes you can slowly go back to normal...
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ok i've had a crush on a guy for quite some tim now (4 years to be more exact) and this year i decided, since im seeing him for christmas.. that will be the day i decided what to do.. if i should get on with my life, or try for something (i only see him once a year during xmas) so what now, now that i found out we're not going there for xmas? i'll never get closure! or answers! i feel like i need to confess my feelings for him, face to face, before i can move on.. or you know, make another kind of decision.
so what do i do? be stuck on him for another year? i don't know!! help please! (link)
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Just relax, there are plenty of fish in the sea, and birds in the sky, so if you dont get to tell him your real feelings this christmas, just put him off and find somebody new during they ear until next christmas, and maybe if you and that new person you've met during the year fall in love with eachother maybe you will move on without expressing your true feelings to him...but I really hope you see him!
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Okay, I tried out for a solo in choir on Friday, and we find out who made it and who didn't. Everyone says I'll get it, but how do I get rid of the nervous feeling in my stomach untill Monday? I couldn't sleep untill after 1 in the morning last night. (link)
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Well, maybe it is just the feeling you get when you are so anxious to know and you cannot wait...but don't get your hopes up too high you will never know... But I hope you make it! =]
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