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Q: I am getting married in three months and I really love my fiance. I'm a model and we met at a fashion shoot, his brother was the photographer. We were going out for A year before he proposed and everything is perfect bewtween us. We also have a lot in common,like we both went to yale. But here's the thing, he grew up in England's High Society,he's the heir to the family fortune and he's dated heiresses and women a lot richer than me and I guess I feel like he can do better or I don't deserve him. I feel inferior to him in some ways, and I can't shake that feeling. I keep thinking "Why is he marrying me? or What makes me different than all the other girls he's been with?" He was a player before he met me, I'm the first girl he commited himself to and I dont even know why! He's starting to notice a change in my behavior. He asks me "Why are you being so distant or Baby, what's wrong" and I don't know what to say. He thinks he did something wrong. Maybe i'm just nervous. I mean i'm getting married! But I need advice I don't know what to do. Should I marry him.
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So he stopped being a player and because of you, committed himself to you, and actually saw you for something other than your money? Sounds good to me. It seems like he actually likes you for you, not for what you have. That's always a plus.
Go for it. I mean yeah, it is a life time commitment, but you have time to think about it. Talk to him about it. Tell him your feelings. I'm sure you are willing to go through it, just a bit scared. Let him know that. It's OK to be afraid, and its OK to talk about it too.
Communicate. It's healthy and essential for any friendship/relationship. Let him know he didn't do anything wrong. If it is what you both want, then why not marry him? Just because your blood isn't blue doesn't mean things can't work out between the two of you. In fact, who says that royalty marrying more royalty would even work out? It would seem to be a royal pain in the a** if you ask me. So I say go for it. Talk to him about it. Let him know how you feel, and tell him you are still up for it. He might be a bit nervous too. Who wouldn't be? Hope that helped and good luck.
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Feel free to ask me any questions or for an alternate way of contacting me through my inbox.
I really like giving advice, so thats why I have a column here. I've been inactive for a long time, but I'm back and will do my best to catch up. Advicenators is a great site and it is what we make it. Having my own advice column helped me learn a lot of new things, even about myself, while giving me the chance to help others along the way. Thanks.
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Gender: Male Location: New York Occupation: Student Age: 18 Member Since: August 10, 2005 Answers: 674 Last Update: July 10, 2009 Visitors: 54870
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