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Should I marry him?
I am getting married in three months and I really love my fiance. I'm a model and we met at a fashion shoot, his brother was the photographer. We were going out for A year before he proposed and everything is perfect bewtween us. We also have a lot in common,like we both went to yale. But here's the thing, he grew up in England's High Society,he's the heir to the family fortune and he's dated heiresses and women a lot richer than me and I guess I feel like he can do better or I don't deserve him. I feel inferior to him in some ways, and I can't shake that feeling. I keep thinking "Why is he marrying me? or What makes me different than all the other girls he's been with?" He was a player before he met me, I'm the first girl he commited himself to and I dont even know why! He's starting to notice a change in my behavior. He asks me "Why are you being so distant or Baby, what's wrong" and I don't know what to say. He thinks he did something wrong. Maybe i'm just nervous. I mean i'm getting married! But I need advice I don't know what to do. Should I marry him.
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Definatly marry him. If he dated all those people that are 'better' than you or richer than you and he chose on his own to be with you and marry you, then he really loves you. If he was a player before and changed because he loves you, then he's the one. Don't question why he want's to be with you, he wants to spend the rest of his life with you because you're special and different from all of those other girls. And I agree, maybe you are just nervous.
[♥]Callie[♥]
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So he stopped being a player and because of you, committed himself to you, and actually saw you for something other than your money? Sounds good to me. It seems like he actually likes you for you, not for what you have. That's always a plus.
Go for it. I mean yeah, it is a life time commitment, but you have time to think about it. Talk to him about it. Tell him your feelings. I'm sure you are willing to go through it, just a bit scared. Let him know that. It's OK to be afraid, and its OK to talk about it too.
Communicate. It's healthy and essential for any friendship/relationship. Let him know he didn't do anything wrong. If it is what you both want, then why not marry him? Just because your blood isn't blue doesn't mean things can't work out between the two of you. In fact, who says that royalty marrying more royalty would even work out? It would seem to be a royal pain in the a** if you ask me. So I say go for it. Talk to him about it. Let him know how you feel, and tell him you are still up for it. He might be a bit nervous too. Who wouldn't be? Hope that helped and good luck.
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I can tell you something right now,
talk to him - tell him exactly what you wrote here, about how you dont know why he chose you, and how you feel inferior. He will understand, and you will get your answer :] Its good he's turning a new leaf with you, and if you love him, the choice is only for your heart to make.
Just remember communication is the key in a healthy loving relationship.
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