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What to do now?
Well this could go on forever, but I'll sum it up.
well in 9th grade i was friends with everyone. I really had no enimies and ppl would make fun of me (overweight) but it didnt bother me back then.
Now I'm in 10th grade and all my original friends just turned on me and started cracking on me and saying really brutal and hurtful comments about me. I wouldnt have mind if i came from the "bully" of the class but a lot of the jokes came from my friend for 5 years. They also shuned me and didnt want me to hang out with them.
I really dont know what to do, I go to very small school (17 students in the 10th grade) soo its kinda hard to get away from them. soo i would really like some one to give me some advice cause i really have no one else to turn to at this point : (
I'll rate really high I just really need some advice.
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I'm so sorry your friends did that to you, I know the feeling. It hurts. Bad. But the best thing for you to do is just move on. Hold your head up high and be brave, because that's the best thing you can do right now. Ignore any further rude, ignorant comments. In a couple days, if your friends don't say anything positive about the situation (hmm.. let's think.. a "sorry" would be nice) you may want to approach them on your own. Remember Mandisa's speech to Simon Cowell on American Idol last year? That's the same thing you want to do: show them your bravery and make them sorry. Something as short and simple as "Real friends don't say mean things to each other. Although I doubt you'll apologize, I forgive you." If they have a look of disgust on their face, which they most likely will, you may want to add something like, "Don't worry, I wouldn't bother hanging out with people as rude as you anymore."
Sweetie, just remember that there are people out there who love you, and that after high school, your life will be great. You'll go off to college and meet new people who will know nothing about your past. Just hang in there for now, and try to make new friends. Good luck, and God bless.
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Aw. Let me fill you in, by sophmore year (the year you are currently in) you find out who your true friends are.
I feel so bad for you sweetheart, I dont understand how people can be so extreamley mean. They dont realize how much their behavior and actions can hurt someone. I would suggest making new friends, but I guess that wont work, if there are only 17 students. I honestly dont know what to tell you, but to keep your head up high. Be yourself, and dont let them get to you. Try talking to a school counsular, or your mom or dad and explain whats going on. I'm sorry people are so cruel to you. You are a beautiful person.
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I was in your shose for quite sometime.
I had really crooked teeth, I mean REALLY. I couldn't get braces until I had teeth pulled and some gum surgery so I was stuck with teeth point straight forward, gaps, and "vampire teeth"
The teasing hurt, I had alot of friends at school, and they thought they were playing around, but they didn't know how much they hurt me. I have braces now, alot of them apologized, and the teasings stopped. I only hope the same for you because I know how badly it hurts.
Try staying as positive as you can.
Try loosing some weight to show them up!
Not only to impress them but to improve your health and enlongate your life!
Try starting out small, drinking more water, eating less junk food, eating more color, then getting more active. Small steps are the key!
If you're not willing to take those steps you need to learn how to stand on your own two feet.
You can join a club or team (Outside of your school) to create new friends to help along the journey. When in school, you can find another friend (if there is any other people to be friends with) or keep to yourself. Think of this as a time to work on your studies! Your grades can improve from your personal time and you can renew yourself.
Once you've worked up confidence, you can let teasing roll off your back.
Tell your 'friends' that what they have said is rude and you're not going to stick around to hear it. You just need to learn confidence, harsh comments are aimed towards easy targets.
Just stay positive.
Find some friends outside of school.
Keep your emotions out in the open (diary etc)
and just keep trying.
Good Luck <3
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