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over the summer....i met a boy. we liked each other and made out the swimming pool, bedroom, basicly all the time. We weren't bf/gf though (i was single)

I go back to his house about to get jumped by a girl who was his girl-friend. Is it my fault for not asking him if he had a gf of his fault for not telling me. i have been so depressed since then....i can't get over him, he seemed so perfect.

How were you to know ? It's his fault. He should have told you that he had a girlfriend before anything ever happened. He seemed perfect on the outside.. but think of it this way. If he did that to his girlfriend. Went behind her back and made out with you without saying anything, do you think he wont do it again ? Once a skumbag always a skumbag. That perfect guy had a major set-back. He baiscly cheated on his girlfriend, hmm.. not so perfect anymore. Don't be drepressed over it, it was a mistake. You didn't know any better. Don't blame yourself. You didn't know, the guy should have told you.. balme him & totally not yourself.

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