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Q: I've been going out with this guy about a month now. We like each other very much. Just two days ago he was telling me how I'm the only one for him and how he likes me so much. Yesturday I found that he got drunk three days ago and had sex with some dirty girl from school. He claims that he remembers nothign of it. He apologized many times. I don't really know what i should do. I still like him a lot but he still went too far with that girl. I dont know whether i should forgive him and go back with him, forgive him and just stay friend, or completely shut him out. And it would be weird at school because i see him for every class. He's 17 and I'm fourteen by the way.
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Wow. That last sentence changed my point of view in a split second. Forgive him - because we should all be forgiving people to make this world a better place than it is now. Stay with him? Absolutely not. You are fourteen years old - you don't need any of this. Stick to more important things, like your grades, family, close friends, etc. Really, if you keep going on it's bound to get worse and really leave you with the bad impression that all relationships will turn out like that. He did go too far, drop him. Forget about him and move on. It's only been a month, and he is much older than you, so it's nothing too serious, no offense. You deserve better. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Gender: Male Location: New York Occupation: Student Age: 18 Member Since: August 10, 2005 Answers: 674 Last Update: July 10, 2009 Visitors: 54805
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