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I have a boyfriend and he is really swet to me, when we talk but the conversations we have always consist of awkward silences. He never calls me, I always have to call him and I know we have a lot in comon because we are basicvally the same person and I feel good when I talk to him. He is always on my mind, but he tries to be romantic and at the age we are at for me it's kinda cheesy. I've tried not calling him for days but he hasn't called me either; it's like a battle or something. I like him but he is kinda boring . Please help
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Let me say something that goes for you and well...every other girl reading this:
it doesn't occur to every guy to call unless you say something to us about it.
Yes, I'm sure there are guys who really do that on their own, but we don't think about things as deep and often as girls do, trust me. When I thought about my girlfriend a lot and was missing her, at first it never occured to me that I should call. Was I a bad boyfriend cause of that? Judge me if you want, but 3 years later I think I learned.
Talk to him about it. If things are boring, then whats the fun? Talk to him about that too, let him know you don't like the silences. Do you have awkward silences with your good friends? Think about that one, along with whether or not you should continue things. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Didnt't really help but I kinda get the gist of what you are trying to say. Nah me n ma friends don't have awkward silences. Thank you anyway
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Feel free to ask me any questions or for an alternate way of contacting me through my inbox.
I really like giving advice, so thats why I have a column here. I've been inactive for a long time, but I'm back and will do my best to catch up. Advicenators is a great site and it is what we make it. Having my own advice column helped me learn a lot of new things, even about myself, while giving me the chance to help others along the way. Thanks.
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Gender: Male Location: New York Occupation: Student Age: 18 Member Since: August 10, 2005 Answers: 674 Last Update: July 10, 2009 Visitors: 54790
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