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one of my very good friends is going out with another one of my very good friends. before they were going out i didnt like him any more than a friend but now that they are i have this strong attraction to him. we joke around together, for example he'll cuddle with me in front of his girlfriend and we'll just say "oh dont tell her" but she's ok with it and knows we're joking.he tries to hold my hand but im not that comfortable doing that when he has a girl friend. but ever since we've been joking around i finally realized that i really do like him but i would never want him to cheat on one of my best friends. i like them as a couple alot, they're really cute together but even when he's cuddling with her i still have an attraction to him. basically i want to make myself see him as just a friend again and i dont know how.
PLEAS HELP
hey babydoll. ♥
i am kinda going through this right now except for the fact that its not my best friends boyfriend! anyways..i was good friends with this guy for about 5 months.. we flirted like crazy and then i was starting to think. hes so adorable, sweet, everything..am i starting to like him? but i kept this all a secret because i am definately someone who doesnt show their feelings. he liked this other girl at the moment and he asked her out and now they have been going out for 4 months. i know how hard it is for you to see them together even though you think they are cute together! i try to be happy for this guy i mean he is my friend right? i want him to be happy! but then again he always flirts with me, and i personally dont know his girlfriend but then i feel bad flirting back because i know he has a girlfriend and i know its not fair for her! i am STILL trying to get over this guy and the thing im trying to do is keep my distance from him! try going out with your girl friends and have a good time, get your mind off him..look for another guy! because i mean this guy is already taken right? so whats the point of flirting with him still because this is going to make you more attached to him. i know it may be hard to keep your distance from your best friends boyfriend but it would be the best thing for you. its not fair for you to wait around and maybe wait for them to breakup if thats what you want. but then like at the football games you can go say hi to him but then go find your friends, go with your other guy friends maybe if you start hanging out with one of them you may start having feelings for him, and start flirting with him and be attracted to him like your attracted to this guy. i know its going to be REALLY hard to try and look at this guy as "just friends" because im trying to do the same thing with the guy i am talking about and i know what your going through but try and keep your distance, get your mind off him! :]
you deserve someone who loves YOU and you only! not another person, especially your best friend. be happy for her, for them. and try not to flirt with him because its probably hurting her but she doesnt want you to be mad or anything.
goodluck hun, keep me updated and sorry i couldnt help out that much but you cant really control your feelings!
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thank you so much for aswering differently than all the rest. they dont' understand what it's like to be so close to someone and have to put up a brick wall so suddenly. thanks again
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