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Hi peepsss.............I'm from Curacao ..a little island in the carribean .
Currently I'm studying and living in Holland(Europe)
In good papiamentu (that's my language )we say ""Mi ta un hende alegre y semper kontentu"
Hopi bendishon pa boso tur (God bless you all)
advice
Theres this guy, and we have been together for a year...this october it would have been two years. but just yesterday I broke it off. the reason is becuz Im looking for a serious relationship, something with a future. and i thought thats where we were headed, but it turns out his mother was very against the idea of us (even though she never met me or even gave me a chance)
anyways now im reaaalllllyyy heartbroken, and i mean i did it to myself. I've lost my best friend, the person I could talk to about anything, and the person i loved more than myself. but what else could I have done? he pretty much told me he couldn't go against his mother...
I guess I just need some comforting... :(
I understand you!!!
I pretty much had been through the same and It was hell
In my case my bf went against his parents ..he had to....becuase they were abusive to him ...
I did broke up with him and he went back to his parents but than he realise that he can't let his parents break his life just becuase they feel to...They really destroyed his life ..they even took him away from his child...
I still feel quilty sometimes for beeing the reason why he went against his parents
eventhough it was for a good reason
My advice to you is just WAIT
If God made him for you ..Beliefe me he will be back!!!
But if he doesn't there will be a better one just made for you .....
Maybe you could seek comfort in a good friend!!
That helped me a lot ..!!
Hope I really helped
Good luck!!
(Rating: 5) i just realized i never did rate you. Thank you soo much for your wonderful advice. i suppose he wasn't made for me though. however i am happily engaged to a wonderful caring man. :)