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My name is Jen, I go to school, and occasionally learn things. I love James Dean, Hanson, Sloppy Firsts and Second Helpings by Megan McCafferty, Fall Out Boy, Elton John and Billy Joel. These make me overly qualified to give advice ESPECIALLY since I spend the vast majority of my time watching and obsesing over Oprah.

I've been through some stuff, and watched even more drama on TV, so I can help with your problems, no matter what your story is Wishbone.

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Hi.
i really need advice. Me and my sister always argue and sometimes it gets phisical, like punching. I really try not to argue with her and it doesn't work. I've tried talking to her about it and that doesn't work. I really want to stop arguing with her. I've talked to my parents about it and they say to ignore it, but i tell them that doesn't work but they won't listen. What do i dso to try and stop??
Thanks sooooo much
-YOLIV (link)
As you guys get older you'll get along much better. I promise.

But that doesn't help you much right now.

For the time being, just walk away. If a fight starts, leave the room, turn up the tv, find something that you can tune her out with.

Are you fighting about one thing in particular? Like borrowing clothes, or hogging the tv or something. Whatever it is, try and call a truce about it. She can borrow your stuff as long as extends the same courtesy to you etc.

You'll also fight less if you guys spend more time together not fighting. Shopping, watching a movie, playing a board game, whatever, something you can both agree on.


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