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Q: I just met a guy through his mom who is actually a pretty good friend of mine, we've hung out twice and both times we seemed to get along great. But He says he is going to stop by or call me when he gets home and never does. my mom says it's because he's shy and really wants to hang out but cant get the nerve to do it, I just think he is trying to avoid me PLEASE someone give me their opinion.
I don't think it means anything in particular. What I do know is that for most guys (yes even me a long time ago), calling up doesn't really cross the mind. There wouldn't be anything wrong with you calling him up or stopping by over there. If he is shy and afraid (which is most likely the case), then taking the first step might actually give him the boost of confidence he needs. Give it a shot.

Talk to him, say: hey you said you would call but didn't, how come? He might not give you a straightfoward answer (because lets face it, does anyone want to admit they were too nervous/afraid to?) Ask him to try to remember or call or whatever it is. If after a bit things don't get better, then you should ask him if he's avoiding you or something. Don't expect/think the worst either, give yourself some credit. Hope that helped and good luck.

thank you!!!!!!!!

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