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Boys are confusing
I just met a guy through his mom who is actually a pretty good friend of mine, we've hung out twice and both times we seemed to get along great. But He says he is going to stop by or call me when he gets home and never does. my mom says it's because he's shy and really wants to hang out but cant get the nerve to do it, I just think he is trying to avoid me PLEASE someone give me their opinion.
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alright..well i think that you need to be the one to make a move. your mom probally is right because boys do do that so i would maybe set up a time when you could hang out with him and get to know him better or something.
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He is not avoiding you, if you both had fun when you hung out those times then he likes you. with his ma i am pretty sure she is telling the truth. i say go to his house and hang out, supprise him. talk to his ma about just hangging out with him and i am sure she will like the idea too, expecially if she knows this guy is shy. so have fun, be yourself, and flirt is the best thing to see if he likes you, and if he does not understand your flirting ask him stright out does he like you? or tell him that you like him
hope this helps.
why would you want to be with a guy who gets drunk all the time? this guy is not worth your time, move on to a diffrent guy, please. you can do so much better.
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I don't think it means anything in particular. What I do know is that for most guys (yes even me a long time ago), calling up doesn't really cross the mind. There wouldn't be anything wrong with you calling him up or stopping by over there. If he is shy and afraid (which is most likely the case), then taking the first step might actually give him the boost of confidence he needs. Give it a shot.
Talk to him, say: hey you said you would call but didn't, how come? He might not give you a straightfoward answer (because lets face it, does anyone want to admit they were too nervous/afraid to?) Ask him to try to remember or call or whatever it is. If after a bit things don't get better, then you should ask him if he's avoiding you or something. Don't expect/think the worst either, give yourself some credit. Hope that helped and good luck.
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It could be anything. Why dont you call him or stop by. It would clear things up a bit.
If i knew what he was like it would be easier.
Good luck
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