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I'm a 15 year old girl and I know everyone who answers me is going to tell me that love doesn't exist at 15, so I'm going to say, I " like " this guy named Jon. We went out and my friend gave me this birthday present and Jon was like " Where did you get it" and I said " Brad gave it to me for my birthday" and Jon told me to give it back. Jon is very controlling and wont let me get a word in when he's in his controlling moods. I told him I wasn't going to give the present back because it's rude and Brad might think I don't like it and I do. When I said I wouldn't give it back he got mad and of course left me. I asked him later why he even loved me and he just said " I don't, bye. " I was really hurt and I cried for 3 hours. My friends cheered me up for that moment but I'm still upset. What should I do? Thanks in advance.

controlling boyfriends turn into ABUSIVE HUSBANDS. I know you "like" him...but is it worth the pain?? Why would you want someone controlling you like that? You are your own person...you can make your own decisons. As for the gift, don't give it back! It was a gift from a FRIEND. you should explain that to Jon...if he still doesn't understand, dump him. There are HUNDREDS of better guys for you. You deserve better than a control freak.

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