The better question is: do you want the guys to like you for the e-mails, or for you? Be yourself and if you really need to, use the e-mails as 'guides'...not as answers or rules you have to follow. Don't stress out. Want to know what? Things might not have wored for you with the e-mails on the other guy because you might not have been yourself.

So I say be yourself, and go for whoever you want. Who are you better friends with? Ultimately, you should want the one you are best friends with in a relationship. That takes time, so don't expect to be in a relationship by September or something. You don't need any advice tips or relationship help like that - not if you know how to be yourself, be a friend, and remember that people need to like you for what you do on your own, not because of outside help like that. Not to say it isn't helpful, but it's not always useful to go by it too much, to the point where you aren't you again.

Try to be friends with the guy again, and apologize letting him know everything you did (with the e-mails). Why? Because he should know you for who you really are, and could give you the chance to start your friendship all over again. Hope that helped and good luck.

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