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Q: I hate my dad..I'm not joking. I honestly do and not just for some stupid reason.
My dad always is threatening my mom with a divorce and stuff she starts crying. I hate seeing her cry when she never even did anything to deserve this. He always is calling her horrible names and cussing at her and me. He hits her sometimes too..she almost called the police. He even hit me once..
I'm so scared of him and so is my mom and my brother. I haven't talked to any of them yet about this. Whenever I hear him yelling or something I'm usually in my room and I start crying because it really is starting to upset me. I can't even TALK to my own dad..whenever he says something to me all the horrible things that he has done to my mom and I in the past just flash back in my mind and I can't speak and I have tears in my eyes. Everytime I hear him screaming at my mom I just want to go down there and tell him to calm down and leave her alone but, I just can't..I'm too scared. I don't know what to do anymore. I can't talk to anyone in my family about this.
How do I help my mom and get my dad to stop yelling all the time?
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Hey there! I agree with cj down there, the greatest thing you can do right now is to pray. Praying will truly help you divinely and can grant you that special peace especially needed when encountering problems like this... Also, the best thing you can do for your mom right now is to spend time with her and comfort her by just talking. Listening to someone who is going through a difficult time can help a million, and will truly make your mom feel better and stronger to face the situation. Helping her with errands or around the house is also very helpful, and your mom will truly appreciate it. Your mom, brother and you could also spend time together outdoors and do something fun, to be free from this problem, and to discuss it. The best thing you can do for your father right now is to just pray for him... Hopefully he'll be enlightened, and truly see how his actions are hurting others.
I really hope everything works out. Take care always and God bless....
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I've tried praying every night for three years about it and so has my mom but nothing is happened. I don't really understand why God isn't answering our prays so, I really have no idea what to do. Anyways, thank you for trying and answering!
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Hi, I'm Normie Jean =).
"Destiny deals the cards, but we choose how to play them."
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Gender: Female Location: Waipahu, Hawaii (where else?) Occupation: Being myself Age: 15 Member Since: August 15, 2005 Answers: 94 Last Update: August 10, 2007 Visitors: 11247
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