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i'm 14.i'm a freshman.i love...shopping.music.my mini ipod.fall out boy.hugs.eating.sleeping.watching tv.going to the movies.hangin out with my girlies.aim.pizza.pajamas.jeans.hollister.american eage.forever 21. well practically the entire mall!lol.six flags.rollercoasters.swimming.smoothie factory. rubber duckies. johnny english. and a bunch of other stuff....

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E-mail: micah.slover@verizon.net
Gender: Female
Location: TeXaS!!!
Occupation: umm...student
Age: 14
AIM: xoBmyescapexoxo
Member Since: August 15, 2005
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Last Update: September 3, 2005
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All my friends tell me im sweet and attractive, yat i cant seem to keep a stable boyfriend. I dated a guy who cheated on me, a guy who had his friend dump me for him and a guy with anger management issues. What can i do to find a good guy?
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just be a yourself. if you act yourself, i'm sure you can find a guy who loves you for who you are. all those guys who cheated on you and dumped you, they didn't love you for who you are... be yourself! that's the best word of advice i can give you!

Micah


Since i'm a little on the short side, i often get alot of comments from guys like, "you're so cute!" (not as in attractive girl, more like little sister) or one i've been hearing alot of lately is, "you remind me of a little girl!" Well, i'm going to be a freshman in high school this year, and it would be nice for guys to look at me as a girl they might like to go out with, not a little kid. Is a guy ever going to see me as a girlfriend???
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So you're shorter, big deal! All those guys who are saying that "you remind me of a little girl" stuff, are only looking on the outside. I'm sure there's a guy out there for you who looks past how small you are and sees how BIG your heart is.

Micah
PS don't let those guys bring you down on those "short" coments they make... YOU ARE PERFECT THE WAY YOU ARE!


ok...so like there is this one girl who loves to get into other peoples buissness...and like it doesnt concern her and she is a really good freind of mine and so like i dont want to hurt her feelings but it is getting really annoying..and i wish she would just stop...i dont know what to do! please help! (link)
i'm not helping you out with this one. I know who this is and it really hurts me that you would ask that bout me. YOu always leave me out. you hang with 2 people but forget all about me. i guess i'm not really your good friend if you said this stuff. I only asked that one thing to try and help. I thought if you told me it would be a way to get it off your chest. i'm not trying to get in your business, i thought you would know that. if you were my good friend than you would have no problems telling me how you really feel. i guess i'll stop and get out of your life if youwant me 2. and you did hurt my feelings by sending me this question. i wish you could have just come to me about this instead of trying to hide it.
Micah
aren't you glad i didn't use your name?


Okay so i have this BEST GUY FRiEnd a gurl can have right! && hes soo sweet and we act like we r basically going out n all (well at least thats wat everyone says) but we r really not were just best friends like brother and sister type thing....but im sorta falling in love with this kid? What should i do?
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Well that's awesome that yall care so much for each other! But if he is your best guy friend and u go out with him and it doesn't work... all that "best guy friend" stuff will be history. It will be very uncomfortable. You guys have love for each other, but not the kinda boyfriend/girlfriend love. If i were u i would stick to the amazing friendship y'all have. It is to special to give up! This guy is WAY perfect for u!

Micah


Ive known this guy for 10 years, but we were never really close. Recently, though, hes been asking me to the movies and to dinner-and insists on paying. I think he likes me, but he hasn't kissed me. Whats going on? (link)
Yep girl... he's definately in love with you! But do you like him? If u think you love him back...then go to the movies with him or maybe even dinner, but pay for it. Let it start as like a friendship outing and then maybe after a while let it turn as a date once you see if you really love him or not.

Micah


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yeah, i think i do, but i'm not sure if he likes me back. why do u want to know?

Micah


i have a friend that gets mad at me all the time ...
if im not with her all the time
im with her too much
i dont say the right thing the right way
i always have to be so careful around her...shes like one of my best friends and she is really cool but it almost makes me not want to hang out with her anymore if i cant just hang back and be myself so what should i do? (link)
I think that you both should be more understanding towards one another. She shouldn't be so cranky all the time, but u need to understand that she is just really emotional. You are doing the right thing by being careful of what you say but eventually tell her how you really feel. If she is the cool, best friend that you thought she was, she will understand. Also, you don't have to be together 24/7, but find time for one another.
Hope i helped!
Micah


i reall like this one guy, but my best friend likes him to. I haven't told her that i like him yet cause i don't want to start something. What should i do?
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Well friends always come before boys so tell her how you really feel. If she is a good friend she will understand.

Micah




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