My name is Jen, I go to school, and occasionally learn things. I love James Dean, Hanson, Sloppy Firsts and Second Helpings by Megan McCafferty, Fall Out Boy, Elton John and Billy Joel. These make me overly qualified to give advice ESPECIALLY since I spend the vast majority of my time watching and obsesing over Oprah.
I've been through some stuff, and watched even more drama on TV, so I can help with your problems, no matter what your story is Wishbone.
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Well me and boyfriend have been going out for a year and 8 months, going to be 9 soon. We are like best friends and spend alot of time together, but its always at my house or at the movies. I have only been to his house twice and once was because his sister invited me, the other cause his dad did. Today me and his family were supposed to go snorkeling but the weather was bad so he didnt go and didnt call me either. Now he says that he is staying at his house with his family. I wanted him to invite me so bad!!! But he didnt. His brother has a girlfriend and she is always over there. I have talked to him before, but still he has never invited me over. I am trying to call him now and he wont pick up his phone =(. OH what do I do, and why is he like this? (link)
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it's probably nothing personal. Some people (like me) just aren't comfortable having people over at their homes. His family might drive him insane, or he just might not like having things in his room touched. It's a quirk think, not an "I hate my girlfriend thing". Or maybe he won't get a chance to be alone with you because is family is strict or intrusive.
Next time he suggests you two do something, like him come over to your house, say something like "no my mum's not feeling well, mind if we hang out at your place" or even "I'm sick of my house, let's go to yours" he'll either explain or get the point.
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Hey thats great advice thanks...really thanks =D I feel better now and I'll do that.
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