My name is Jen, I go to school, and occasionally learn things. I love James Dean, Hanson, Sloppy Firsts and Second Helpings by Megan McCafferty, Fall Out Boy, Elton John and Billy Joel. These make me overly qualified to give advice ESPECIALLY since I spend the vast majority of my time watching and obsesing over Oprah.
I've been through some stuff, and watched even more drama on TV, so I can help with your problems, no matter what your story is Wishbone.
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Hi, I'm from Italy. I met my girlfriend about 7 months ago and I love her very much.She is a very friendly girl and got lots of friends. she is still in contact with some of her exs and that drives me mad.she says they are still friends and if the relationship didnt work well between them does not mean they are bad people and thats why she still is in contact with them, she is also telling me she needs to see them sometimes as the are friends and she miss them but I really don't like it.I don't know how to react and what to tell her or ..maybe I'm wrong.please give me some advice.thanks (link)
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Just because a relationship doesn't work out doesn't mean someone is to blame for it. Sometimes the people just weren't meant to be romantically involved, it doesn't mean they can't be friends. They obviously had stuff in common if they dated. I highly doubt you are attracted to every female ever, so why would your girlfriend be attracted to all males?
I'd back off a little, she needs her space, and not to be constantly worried that you're going to get mad at her for smiling at someone the wrong way.
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Thank you very much, it was very helpful. you are right,she needs her space. I will use your advice.Thanks again
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