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My name is Ryan. And I will answer most everything you want to ask to the best of my God given ability.But I will not sugar coat any answer and I will give MY advice. I don't care about my ratings, so don't think giving me a 1 for an answer you don't want to hear will scare me. And if you already know what you should do about a sitaution, don't come to us here at advicenators asking for a second opinion. And here below is a list of questions you should NOT ask on advicenators. Granted some of them may vary and be acceptable, but overall don't ask the below questions on Advicenators.
**Don't ask questions like "OMG i heard this song on the radio with "insert pointless pop lyrics here" and i wanna know what it is so what is it! Thanks!! I rate 5sssss! hearts". This question can be simply googled with the lyrics, or you need only ask a friend
**Don't ask "ok so there is the hott guy/gal in my class and he/she like got me a *insert gift or simple trinket here* do you think he/she likes me?" This is the most common question here on this website sadly. Unless it is vitally important and actually pertains to a feeling of true feelings, don't ask it. This is most asked by teens. And what teens need to learn is "love" is not thinking a guy/girl is sweet and hott and nice. I know love, and it is so far from all those things. Remember Cicero when he said "Out of all the emotions, love is the most violent. Love is madness."
**"Ok so me and my boyfriend had sex last night and we like used no protection omg he came in me do you think i am pregnant?" Ugh. Stupid teens and their hormones. IF YOU HAVE SEX YOU ALWAYS RUN THE RISK OF PREGNANCY, UNLESS YOUR STERILE. And if you don't know anything about sex, you shouldn't be doing it. Even if you "love" your partner, half the time this is a disallusion and you will end up hurt. Sex is for marriage.
**Or asking what's "in" for fashion, or what they should wear out tonight. Or what is "cute" and what looks good. Pick and choose for yourself what you like, think for yourself instead of trying to let other people do it for you. Stand up and be yourself.
These are the most common questions I have seen on Advicenators. Now there are a few questions that are very good questions and deserve the 3 rating and the best answer possible. But they are usually blocked out with the kinds of questions listed above. If you want to ask something, check the following off that I am listing.
1.Does the question pertain to anything important or trivial?
2.Is proper grammar used?
3.Is the question long and in one paragraph?
4.Is it a question that you yourself can answer?
5.Is there enough detail?
Following those 5 guidelines, you can write a good 3 point answer. That about wraps it up.
I spend alot of time online and here on advicenators, so if you ever need anything then just send something in my inbox or IM me. I'm not opposed to helping people at all, in fact I love doing it. I just want some people to wake up from asking a stupid question.
Thank you all for your time.
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Well this all happened this week.
In my school we have tables that fit eight
people so all my friends that are close sit there.I've been in Lunch Detentions for the week but today,today i sit down like its nothing chilling wiht my homes and Taunya and Charmaine sit at another table.Confused i asked why there not sitting at our table and they dont answer me so i was like whats going on!!I go back to my table and ask Kayliegh she says because i called taunyas sister a shes mad and wont sit here.I get mad because i dont know whats going on and Taunyas mad at me so is Charmaine i try asking them but they wont talk to me.I ask Corina and she says "because your hanging out with Kayliegh"I havent known whats been going on and shes taking it out on me .Ive been known that when i get mad i hit people and wind up in iss not this time ive been kicking the bathrom stall doors.So i run in there and kick it and kick it and kick it so many times i lost count and started crying.I dont like it when people see me cry because its a sigh of weakness and im not the one to cry and all this but i cnat help it .Well we have passes so we cant stay to long at the bathroom(this is all happening at lunch)so i come out all red faced and still crying at yell at kayliegh "because of you shes not my friend anymore!!!"Still crying i know Charmaine says crap behind your back so i know there talking about me.Everyone i dont know are like whats wrong i always said nothing im fine lil as possible.I dont like the guidence constaler so i dont go to her.I ended up crying in class....
well its not about crying itd about crying but my friends tell me im nto mad at you and i say dont talk to me....
help me
im 13 (link)
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Your in a bad situation.
First off, let me tell you crying, is not a sign of weakness. And if you are one to think that, then you are wrong.
You have typical teeange drama. And I will just assume your a girl so I will tell you. Alot of girls that are young teens, are mean and vicious. Just forget it all. They all have obviously proven the degree of their friendship to you. They don't seem like good friends to want to ditch you like they did, and directly put you in the middle of their fued. Get new friends. Friends that you can trust and won't go behind your back. Those people you told me about, aren't good friends.
And I know what true friendship is. I grew up friendless and hated until 2 years ago (and I am onl 16). I know what friendship means and I can tell you from what you've told me. That isn't friendship, and they are not worth neither your tears, or your time.
I'm here if you need to tell me anything else at all, so please, don't be hesitant to message me again.
I hope I helped you, and I hope everything your expierencing, goes away and better friends, is something you will find from this.
-Ryan
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Rating: 5
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thank you so much it was good advice great actaually i would give u a ten but it only goes up to 5 and i will be sure of that but its not easy making new friends but ill be sure to try..
thank you so much!!!!!!!
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