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crying


Question Posted Friday March 24 2006, 5:47 pm

Well this all happened this week.
In my school we have tables that fit eight
people so all my friends that are close sit there.I've been in Lunch Detentions for the week but today,today i sit down like its nothing chilling wiht my homes and Taunya and Charmaine sit at another table.Confused i asked why there not sitting at our table and they dont answer me so i was like whats going on!!I go back to my table and ask Kayliegh she says because i called taunyas sister a <bad name> shes mad and wont sit here.I get mad because i dont know whats going on and Taunyas mad at me so is Charmaine i try asking them but they wont talk to me.I ask Corina and she says "because your hanging out with Kayliegh"I havent known whats been going on and shes taking it out on me .Ive been known that when i get mad i hit people and wind up in iss not this time ive been kicking the bathrom stall doors.So i run in there and kick it and kick it and kick it so many times i lost count and started crying.I dont like it when people see me cry because its a sigh of weakness and im not the one to cry and all this but i cnat help it .Well we have passes so we cant stay to long at the bathroom(this is all happening at lunch)so i come out all red faced and still crying at yell at kayliegh "because of you shes not my friend anymore!!!"Still crying i know Charmaine says crap behind your back so i know there talking about me.Everyone i dont know are like whats wrong i always said nothing im fine lil as possible.I dont like the guidence constaler so i dont go to her.I ended up crying in class....


well its not about crying itd about crying but my friends tell me im nto mad at you and i say dont talk to me....

help me
im 13


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Alpha345 answered Friday March 24 2006, 6:28 pm:
Your in a bad situation.

First off, let me tell you crying, is not a sign of weakness. And if you are one to think that, then you are wrong.

You have typical teeange drama. And I will just assume your a girl so I will tell you. Alot of girls that are young teens, are mean and vicious. Just forget it all. They all have obviously proven the degree of their friendship to you. They don't seem like good friends to want to ditch you like they did, and directly put you in the middle of their fued. Get new friends. Friends that you can trust and won't go behind your back. Those people you told me about, aren't good friends.

And I know what true friendship is. I grew up friendless and hated until 2 years ago (and I am onl 16). I know what friendship means and I can tell you from what you've told me. That isn't friendship, and they are not worth neither your tears, or your time.

I'm here if you need to tell me anything else at all, so please, don't be hesitant to message me again.

I hope I helped you, and I hope everything your expierencing, goes away and better friends, is something you will find from this.

-Ryan

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