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Q: well i just started dateing this guy today ( tuesday ) and i met him last tuesday i think...anyway we dont really know much about each other but all i know is that i really like him and i guess he likes me because he asked me out..well since i dont really know much about him should we not go out?? and like 10 minutes after we left each other i felt like since i got what i wanted ( him really badly ) then i dont want him as much anymore...its like a game with me i guess.i dont know but it happens all the time.my friends think its because i want what i cant have and i guess thas kinda true..i mean i still like him but not as much anymore.what should i do?? ill rate high for any good answers
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Whoa there, seems like you kind've rushed into things. No offence, but it was not the best idea to start things off with a relationship instead of a friendship - I mean they should be your best friend and know them and everything. So I think you should definately talk to him and tell him what you think. It's up to you to break things off, I mean if you don't feel like you like him as much as you used to, then maybe you should - just to avoid getting hurt later on, ya know?
If you want to keep things going thats fine, but make sure you both take the time out to get to know each other well first - thats always important in a friendship and relationship.
You should still be honest anyway. If you don't feel like its going to work out and don't know him, then at least as a friend you owe it to him to tell him that. If he was feeling the same way, wouldn't you want him to tell you? So definately talk to him about it, decide on something, and get to know him better either way. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Feel free to ask me any questions or for an alternate way of contacting me through my inbox.
I really like giving advice, so thats why I have a column here. I've been inactive for a long time, but I'm back and will do my best to catch up. Advicenators is a great site and it is what we make it. Having my own advice column helped me learn a lot of new things, even about myself, while giving me the chance to help others along the way. Thanks.
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Gender: Male Location: New York Occupation: Student Age: 18 Member Since: August 10, 2005 Answers: 674 Last Update: July 10, 2009 Visitors: 54877
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