mn731's advice column

Alpha female, always tries her hardest, analyzes the situation too much, overthinks what the other person says, tries to please others, stresses easily, high achiever, loooooves to laugh. I'm still learning the facts of life, but I can always share my mistakes and lessons learned. :)

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oaky...Well I will start out like this, well there's this boy and he lives with me four days out of the week,and it kind of seems like he takes over a lot of things like usally i am the one that stands by the cart being able to talk to my mom and then when he comes I am the one standing in the back and he is the one that is getting all the attention and its not fair.... it seems like he takes over everything like my sister and my dad. because like my sister is way nicer to him and my dad is always doing stuff with him... And he makes me cry every night because everytime i need to talk to my parents he's there buddin into the conversation and i can't barely talk to anyone about the way i feel because he's always around and I dont want to tell my friends and family about him in front of his face well all i am asking for is some good advice so even if its bad but you tried I will give you a five

Luv Brittany PLEASE PLEASE answer because I need halp : (

Just a friendly suggestion =) : Try punctuating more next time (It was hard for me to read and keep up with what you were saying.)

If I were you, I would tell him nicely at first. Don't be afraid to! If you're too scared to tell him to back off, then how would he know that he's bothering you? Tell him to stop butting in, and be polite when you are trying to speak to your parents.

Also, you said that he lives with you four out of 7 days, right? Well, talk to your parents when he isn't there.

Don't let him continue this--Right now, he doesn't know what he's doing. He doesn't know that this is making you angry. Tell him. Tell him. Tell him. It's the only way.
--or you could just ask him to move out. :)

Hope I helped!

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(Rating: 5) that was good advice sorry I had to go fast with the puncuation because he could come in the room and see that i wrote a question about im everytime I try to talk to my parents when he isn't here they just say well you are gonna have to learn to get along and that he is gonna be living with us for a ehile now ... bad UHHHHHHH well thanks

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