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Q: ok im 16 years old and like most girls these days i've already lost my virginity. All the guys around my school know it. And thats all they want from me. Im not the kind of person to do that. I've always had a good rep. i have alot of friends and i make pretty good grades and a cheerleader and a nice person but boys around school dont believe that. They hear one thing and they wont give me the chance to prove them wrong. Now im starting to lose some friends over this. Ppl talk about me bein a hoe and stuff at school and im not REALLY im not. Ive had sex with only one guy and they think im a slut and everything else. How can i get my rep back to the person they knew b4?
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This one isn't an easy one... As to getting your reputation back 100% I'm not too sure is possible - mostly because you can't undo something like losing your virginity. Earn your respect back for who you really are? Yes, you can do that.
If somebody says something about it right to you, say so what, who cares? If when somebody says something to you just to get under your skin and they see that it does, then they will keep doing it or just spread it around. So try not to let it bother you. If some guys don't give you a chance because of that, or only want you because of that...then are they really worth it to begin with? You could actually try asking for a real chance, nothing wrong with that. Really, you shouldn't have to prove yourself to anybody to begin with - friends of yours that don't give you a hard time about it or bother you are your real friends, not the ones that constantly bring it up, spread it around, or talk to you just because of that.
So yeah just ignore it, don't let it get to you, tell them the truth and keep your head up high. Those that judge you without knowing you aren't worth it anyway. Hope that helped and good luck.
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I really like giving advice, so thats why I have a column here. I've been inactive for a long time, but I'm back and will do my best to catch up. Advicenators is a great site and it is what we make it. Having my own advice column helped me learn a lot of new things, even about myself, while giving me the chance to help others along the way. Thanks.
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Gender: Male Location: New York Occupation: Student Age: 18 Member Since: August 10, 2005 Answers: 674 Last Update: July 10, 2009 Visitors: 54859
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