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SEX SEX SEX...and more SEX
ok im 16 years old and like most girls these days i've already lost my virginity. All the guys around my school know it. And thats all they want from me. Im not the kind of person to do that. I've always had a good rep. i have alot of friends and i make pretty good grades and a cheerleader and a nice person but boys around school dont believe that. They hear one thing and they wont give me the chance to prove them wrong. Now im starting to lose some friends over this. Ppl talk about me bein a hoe and stuff at school and im not REALLY im not. Ive had sex with only one guy and they think im a slut and everything else. How can i get my rep back to the person they knew b4?
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Hi,
You can't undo the past. Nor can you really change the opinions of others. People think want they want to think, regardless of what the truth is.
You know who you are, and what you are and aren't. I know it seems so cliche, but that IS the most important thing. If you have to prove yourself to these so-called 'friends', then they were never friends to begin with. Those who love you will still accept you for you, the bad, the good, the really really ugly.
I think we've all gone through a situation like that, I sure know I have. It hurt...I lost some who I thought I could consider friends, but the true ones stuck by my side. You don't have to prove yourself to anyone. Keep your head up..And brush it off. What fun is gossiping if they can't provoke you? People lose interest real fast when they don't get a response.
Take care
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ok..im gunna b honest i dont kno this is a really tough one..one time this gurl told eveyone at my school that i gave oral to this guy and every tried to get with me...but im not down with that... so now at my skool im tha bitch with the attitude and a head giving hoe... but the way i got my rep bac to clean was jus ignorin tha people who ask me to do stuff with them and my fake friends who dropped me because they are suppose to stick with you through thick and thin...you shouldn't let thme ruin your rep. if you've only had sex wit one guy.. i never knew that meant you were a hoe.. i guess tha bitches who had sex with 2 guys are whores and sluts! lol
hope this helped xoxDebby Muahsz
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This one isn't an easy one... As to getting your reputation back 100% I'm not too sure is possible - mostly because you can't undo something like losing your virginity. Earn your respect back for who you really are? Yes, you can do that.
If somebody says something about it right to you, say so what, who cares? If when somebody says something to you just to get under your skin and they see that it does, then they will keep doing it or just spread it around. So try not to let it bother you. If some guys don't give you a chance because of that, or only want you because of that...then are they really worth it to begin with? You could actually try asking for a real chance, nothing wrong with that. Really, you shouldn't have to prove yourself to anybody to begin with - friends of yours that don't give you a hard time about it or bother you are your real friends, not the ones that constantly bring it up, spread it around, or talk to you just because of that.
So yeah just ignore it, don't let it get to you, tell them the truth and keep your head up high. Those that judge you without knowing you aren't worth it anyway. Hope that helped and good luck.
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You shouldn't care what people think of you... and if there really good friends of yours leaving then they really weren't your friends.. All the people talkin smack are jealous.. ignore it and hopefully it'll go away
Really hope I Helped,
Jamie*
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