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Love means giving somebody the ability to destroy you & trusting them not to do it.



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well i like or liked (i totally dont know what to think anymore? ) this guy named peter! and well i think he liked me back and he always smiled at me and smiled at me but i'm kind of shy so i never smiled back. so once in my bus he sat next to me and talked to me but i was in a bad mood and very mean to him! well not THAT mean but kinda mean lol so then he never talked to me again but sometimes he still looked at me. so i felt bad and i called him today i was like
me: hi my name is cornelia can i please talk to peter
peter: yeah i'm peter
me: oh well hi its me you know that mean girl? uhm yeah so i just wanted to appologize for being so mean!
peter:uhu
silence..
me: so is everythink ok again?
peter: uhh yeah
silence
me: ok than
silence
peter: bye
me: bye

and well that was it and i started grying cause it totally went wrong! i thought he would say like ok i except it or whatever but he said nothing at all? does he hate me now? i am really upset! i think he's gonn atell everybody now that i called him and then there all gonna laugh at me! but i dont get it! he even told me he loved me once (i was kinda mean then 2) but i tried to be nice now! he act like he didnt care! i need advice i'm really upset!!!!

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Hey hun, first off calm down!
Everybody gets their bad days where nothing goes right and they just take it out on the first person they talk to.
I'm sure he gets those days too.
Seems to me like you are jumping to comclusions and taking everything out of proportion.
I think that you still do have feelings for the guy or else you wouldn't care so much about this.
I think that either he might not like you anymore or he was just so surprised that you called him after being mean to him and he didn't know how to talk to you.
He also might be shy to talk to you because he may like you.
He just may be confused right now.
What i would do is try talking to him in school.
Let this whole thing pass and let it go.
If you need anything else, drop one in my inbox.



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thanks!!!




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