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Hi I'm Dee. I'm 23 and married. I've worked in health care as well as office settings but am now a home-maker. I'm knowledgeable in a variety of subjects but don't mind doing a little research if asked about something I don't know about. Most of my friends come to me for advice. I read several advice columns and would like to help you also. I'm not judgemental. Your life is yours to live it as you choose. I believe asking for advice is good, but ultimately the choice is yours. You WILL NOT find a hurtful or smartass answer here.
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my friend's boyfriend has been harassing me since last year. He keeps doing things to my locker such as smashing a banana on it, putting tape all over, writing all over it, leaving long notes, putting signs with names such as boob girl or b***h etc. He would also spread all these rumors about me and call me all of these names. when my friend tells him to stop he refuses and he said that he wants to hurt me. she wants to protect her boyfriend from being suspended and she is trying to stop me from telling the GLC. He has been doing the same things to other people but they are too afraid of him to speak up. I really want to tell the GLC and take action but would I be doing the right thing by doing that even if I probably won't be friends with her anymore? also, I know that the GLC won't believe me since I don't have enough evidence to prove what he is doing to me. what should I do in this situation?
The fact that he said he wants to hurt you throws up red flags. I would definitely tell someone before his behavior gets any worse. I'm not sure what the GLC is, but chances are, they have to investigate your complaint whether they believe you or not. If you could find someone to back you up or tell what he has done to them, it may help.
As for your friend, I think it's a chance you'll have to take. Hopefully one day soon, she'll realize what kind of guy this one is and understand that you had to protect yourself. I hope for her sake that the day comes soon since this guy appears to have the characteristics of an abuser.
(Rating: 5) thanx