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the name is lindsay, but call me lu. i'm crazy, calm, happy, optimistic and spoiled. i've got my best friends. yes i've made mistakes but who hasn't. i've gained some of the most amazing people but also lost a few great ones. the past is the past, i'm over it. the future scares me but i'm ready. i am very independent, i need my space. my family is definately one of my number one priorities, they never let me down and always work hard to make me happy. i look up to my brother shane, he is one of my best friends. i try my hardest not to judge others. i refuse to settle for less. i finally figured out who i really am and ive never ever been happier. i want to become successful, and someday i know i will. i'm the blonde one, thats me :) probably the biggest sweetheart, and one of the most understanding people you'll ever meet. just don't piss me off. i make the best out of every situation. i don't trust easily but i'm a strong ass girl. smiling is something i'm good at. i never give up. i keep my chin up. i stand up for myself and don't let people walk all over me. i don't get mad, i get even. i believe in myself, and in who i am. i live life to the fullest which also means taking risks and chances. i probably don't care what you think, because right now i've got everyone i need. being in love is one of the greatest things i've ever experienced. everything is meant to happen for a reason. live life with no regrets and have fun. change is something thats necessary, even though it's not always good. get to know me, i promise you won't regret it. i live my life for myself and not others. i love the life i was given, and i'll never stop being me.
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E-mail: lindsayluxo@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Age: 21
Member Since: December 26, 2005
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I have a problem, and it's very bad. Sometimes I just want to cry and cry forver. I have a phobia of not being perfect. I need perfect grades, perfect friends, perfect face, prefect body, perfect breast, perfect family, perfect house, perfect life. I don't know what to do. I always feel so ugly, and that no one likes me. Yet I am very popular in school and have lots of friends. I go to parties every weekend... and try to live the classic Hollister & Ambercrombie California barbie. I'm pretty good at it too, except for my confidence. I'm 5'3" and weigh 103 pounds and am constantly worrying about my body. Everyday I will look in front of my mirror with nothing on and just look at my body and cry. I'm fat, no breast, no butt, my face is too big, my arms are to skinny, but nose is to big, my chinis ugly. I have a dissorder adn I don't know what to do. Sometimes I just think if i should throw up after meals... but the thing is i don't know why i should. Everybody thinks my life is great and perfect... but it's not. I'm so unhappy about everything, I hate my life sometimes i just want to die. What is your advice? Should I stick with my dream of being perfect and plan my plastic surgeries when I get older adn stick with my studies. Or shoudl O let go? Should I go to councilling, please help... I'm so confused!
sweetheart nobody is perfect! even tho some of us want to be, its just not possible we all are going to have our flaws and things that we arent happy about but there isnt anything we can do about it! your not fat at all your actually pretty skinny! i dont think you need to go to counseling OR get plastic surgery because you should be happy with yourself and not try to be something that your not. people are going to love you for you! i bet tons of girls are jealous of you so if i were you i would feel great about myself! build up your self-confidence and tell yourself that your beautiful! i get to the point where i just break down and cry because sometime i see myself in a mirror and dont think i look that ugly but then one day i will look and i will see something totally different, something i cant stand looking at! everyone goes thru this hun but if you need anything else im always here!
♥ Kristen
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