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Hey Guys! It has been FOREVER! :(But I'm back! (as of October 08) If you don't know or remember me my name is Ashley :) Currently 16 years old and a junior in highschool. I don't complain much and you'll always see a smile on my face.
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My ex and i havent been together now for a year.
Him and his gf of a year have broken up now for the 100th time. This is the longest break tho. He has never told me when theyve broken up in the past, except for this time.
We had been talking to each other way before they broke up this last time.
He said that he was surprised that i havent been into his place of employment yet. He always would come into mine with his gf.(never knew why tho)anyways, i did the next night with my gf.
He was joking around with me and saying to my friend, "hey rachel, call me sometime." Then hed give me this stupid grin.
Well, days went on and 1 night while talking to him online, he wanted to hang out with me, then asked me to call him. I did and we talked for 2 hrs. The next night he called me and told me to come into his work. I did and his other ex came in(cant seem to leave him alone) he got mad at her and they argued in front of me. He told her he was taking her back home(after she walked there). I gave him this look, and left. 1 and a half hrs later he called me up saying he didnt want to be with her. So he picked me up and we went to his house. We talked, wrestled, and i gave him a backrub(like i used to do) We cuddled, and he started making out with me. He asked me if he could put it inside me. I said no, and he asked me like 4 more times after that. I kept saying no. After he told me that he still loves me. 2 of his friends kept calling, and i told him to go out with them. He told 1 that he was just gonna go to bed. I told him to hang out with the other 1 and he said ok.
The next day he called and i took him out for lunch (i owed him as a favor a yr ago)an hr later he took me home.(that was saturday)
Sunday night we talked online, but i didnt bring up anything that happened friday night. We always used to talk about that after.
I knew he had a party to go to on saturday night, and i asked him how that went, and he said it was gay. He told me he left at like midnight and went to his "recent" exs to "talk", and then he fell asleep. He said he couldnt even keep his eyes open anymore. He said he woke up at 3am and then went home. I was really hurt inside, but didnt say anything.
I didnt hear from him for 4 days and thats when i called him to wish him a happy thanksgiving. He was invited over to "her" house. He was there again the next night because it was her bday. I called him the following night, and he called me back later saying that i made him realize how much he loves "her".
What a kick in the pants was that?
All i need is every1s opinion. See if it matches up with mine!!!
Thanks!(heartbroken again)
Oh my god! Okay, I'm just going to tell you what I think happened and not lie. I think he used you. I mean if he keeps breaking up with his ex then getting back together, it was obviously going to happen again. I think deep down you still had feelings for him and thats why you went to his house and all that, you made those feelings stronger then once he was done with you he went back to his ex and you got hurt in the long run. It sucks but that is what I think happened. He got bored with one girl, went to the next, then went back. I'm so surprized that you would handle it so well. I would be so sad/mad/every emotion lol. But ya, my advice, don't talk to him at all/or a LITTLE because this whole thing might happen again
Ashley♥
(Rating: 5) thanks hun, but ive been through alot in the year that we havent been together. We were each others 1st love and its just hard to think that he could do that to me...again! Believe it or not, i still love him.(i choose to keep that to myself though)