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Hi I'm Dee. I'm 23 and married. I've worked in health care as well as office settings but am now a home-maker. I'm knowledgeable in a variety of subjects but don't mind doing a little research if asked about something I don't know about. Most of my friends come to me for advice. I read several advice columns and would like to help you also.

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i just turned 21. i would like to get pregnant with my bf of 2 years but b4 i do so i need some advice into easier ways to get pregnant faster. is there a time in which we could try wich would make it easier? is there any hints into what we should do for example i heard if you both have an orgasm at the same time would that make it easier to concieve? Well please help i rate 5s for people with lots of advice!

First off, if you're planning on getting pregnant, you need to start taking prenatal vitamins and eating healthy. If you smoke or drink, it's time to quit. It's essential for your body and the health of the baby to be as healthy as you can before and after you conceive.

You should also see your ob/gyn for a complete physical checkup to make sure there is nothing that would make it difficult for you to become pregnant. They will also be able to give you more specialized advice on conceiving.

The best way to get pregnant is to figure out when you ovulate. It's generally about halfway through your cycle or about 14 days after the first day of your period. For more accuracy, there are ovulation predictor kits on the market that test your hormone levels. They can be a little pricy so that may be something you need to consider. You can buy them at Walmart and most pharmacies.

As far as I know. having an orgasm at the same time will not increase your chances. Some things I have heard of working are having sex every other day and having sex in the mornings to maximize sperm count. Positions that give deep penetration have also been known to work since the sperm have less distance to travel.

Just a thought, but have you spoken to your boyfriend about your want for a child and does he agree? Pregnancy is a very emotional time (I'm currently 3 months myself so I know.) and you need every bit of emotional support you can get.

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(Rating: 5) thank you very much

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