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i have a peer leading group at my school. my school goes to k-8th grade. so i help little kids in the elementry side with there problems and this will be my first year. in two weeks i have a peer trip to get trained. it supposed to be so much fun its gonna be like a camping trip overnight and i can't wait. but now i relized my sister's confirmation is on the day! if i dont go to the trip, i can't do peer. and i worked so hard to get into, i really have to go. but i feel so bad about missing it. my sister said she doesnt care, but my mom is really upset. and plus i wont be able to see my whole family that is coming for the celebration i dont know what to do =[
You've worked really hard for peer, you can't just give it up and your sister wouldn't want you to! I think you should give your sister a special confirmation gift, ring her up on the day etc, do all you can to show that you want to be there and you know how special the day is for her, but still go to peer. You can't give it up when you've worked hard for it - you'll regret it for a long time. Your mum'll come around to the idea, and if she doesn't she's being selfish, especially as your sister doesn't mind!
As for the rest of the family, you could get someone to pass a message onto them saying sorry you couldn't see them but you're at a special peer thing. There'll always be another time too :)
(Rating: 5) thanks so much for your help =] !!