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Well I use to be on advicenators a while back, & then life got way too busy & I no longer had time for it, & after I while I forgot all about advicenators. =/
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My names maria, but people call me smalls.
I'm 5 feet tall, which would explain why my nick name is smalls. ;]
I'm 17 years old, and a senior in high school.
I always gave great advice before but now that I'm older and wiser, I give
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ok well im a bi guy 14 and i dont know how to meet other gays and im too ashamed to relle tell everyone and ppl i know arent gay and dont know any gays i even have a friend searching. What can i do????
Hey
Try calling a gay hotline. Most major cities have one. You may want to call from a phone booth for privacy. They will let you talk about your feelings and will direct you to organizations that help gay people or bi people. There may even be a gay youth group in your area.
Here is one of the Toll-free Hotlines
GLB Teen Hotline: 1-800-347-TEEN(Weekend Nights Only)
Also Check the white pages of your telephone book under "gay" or "bi" Especially look for hotlines, counseling agencies and youth groups.
But heres my honest opinion, your still very young. Are you sure your really bi? Maybe it's just a phase. Look i'm not here to judge you, i have many gay friends. I Love bi,and gay people. They are just so much more understanding and nicer then everybody else, but i just want you to know for sure that you really are before you go around telling everybody and then later on in life regretting it! If you do believe for a fact that you are then i say keep this to yourself for now. At this age there really isn't much you can do about these feelings. And as you said yourself you don't feel comfortable telling many people yet. Just wait before you tell anyone. But if you want you can try finding someone online to talk to that might be bi, or gay. Maybe you can fulfill your desire online rather then in person. Just go into any chat room and ask if there are any bi, or gay people in the chat that would like to talk. Make a fake Sn just for that task that you might do.
Also try going to these sites:
http://www.webarrow.net/chatindex/gay.php
http://www.321gaychat.com/
http://www.myspace.com
^ myspace might have some gay/bi groups.
just take the time to look around.
Also if you want IM me on aim my Sn is DiOr BARBIEE
i can give you some more ideas and what not or maybe i can have a talk with some of my bi friends and ask if they can have a talk with you. if you have any questions i'm sure you can just ask them.
♥ maria ♥
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thanks get them to add me on msn thund3rstruck_14@hotmail.com
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