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13/m sorry its so long
there is this girl danielle that i really like and have liked for a while i thought i was over her for a few months then some kids at school said some guy hit her and i got so mad that i faugt him but its more then that i faught him got arrested broke a cars mirror of and dented the car getting sued to fix the car got a 2 day out of school suspendion broke my knuckle and other stuff and i dont know if she relizes everything i did for her and i dont know if she does but doesnt wanna talk about it or just is to shy to tell me if she likes me i think she might but i dont know for sure if anyone knows how i can tell if she likes me let me know
thanks
mike

That's exactly it, she doesn't know. Were you really doing it in her best interests or in yours? In this case, it isn't all for her. In fact, most of it was probably for you. It's never easy to get over something old and onto something new. When you fought it out with some kid, you were releasing some of that heart break and angst against her (yes, her) onto someone who probably had nothing to do with her. This is just you, telling yourself that these feelings are still very real. If it was just a buddy, would you have jumped into conclusions over something that a few kids were saying (most likly trying to provoke you since they know your attraction toward this girl)? She's most likely going to think that you are just another silly kid getting in a physical fight, since she did not ask you do cause physical harm on him. And if she does think this is all because of her, she's probably feeling pretty damn guilty right about now. Say you did this out of total self-sacrification, do you expect her to give up something to you? This is not meant to drop a bomb on your shoulders but to help you come to a realization. You can keep trying to get rid of these feelings by keeping in constant motion, but you are literally coming back to where you started from. This is not going to give you the satisfaction you're looking for, nor will it let her know how you're truly feeling and you're going to keep circling in your thoughts until you do something about it. Whether it's gratitude, her affection, or closure you're looking for, it can't be done by sitting in front of her house. Think about my suggestions or even sit on it. Do whatever you like, because I cannot decide your next ACTION for you.

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(Rating: 1) thats the stupidest thing i ever heard

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